Your Blind Spots List
A communication Blind Spot is when you do or say something that causes push back, boredom, or anger and you don’t know why. Here are some suggestions on how to avoid Blind Spots in your talk.
- Do not mention your topic at the beginning of your talk.
- Do not mention the story of how the Bishop, Branch President, or Stake President asked you to speak on the following subject.
- Do not explain that you had prepared a talk last night and this morning the spirit changed his mind and now you’re speaking on something else. He rarely changes his mind.
- Do not ask for forgiveness because you procrastinated your preparation.
- Do not give a chronological history of your life or your mission.
- If you’ve had a rough life, you can mention you’ve had a rough life, but details should be written in your journal.
- Do not exhort the members. If you feel passionate about your subject, it doesn’t mean they do. It is not within your stewardship to exhort further study of a certain scripture, book, or topic. It is also not appropriate to exhort the audience into greater obedience.
- Try to avoid broad topics. It’s easier to prepare a talk by narrowing your topic and focus.
As I read what not to do or “blind spots”, I remember many speakers that have done just that. It does take away from the spirit and really won’t help in the presentation. Thanks for your insight
I love this counsel. I apply this to my monthly opportunities to speak. this is one of the most valuable “do not” lists in the church. it should be in the cover of every members scriptures!